How to Use A Vibrator Sex Toy: Complete Beginners Guide

Are you new to vibrators? You’re not alone, and that’s why we have written this piece.

Not everyone has experienced or attempted to pleasure themselves with a vibrator before. If this is you, you’re not late to the game. In fact, you’re right on time because this post is going to make it a smooth ride for you. Literally.

With sex and orgasms, vibrators are like the icing on the cake. Vibrators are used for pleasurable social sexual stimulations. They come in different shapes, sizes and models. Vibes as they are fondly called, can be used for both solo-play and partnered play by one or more people.

Sex Toys aren’t just for people who enjoy pleasuring themselves; they are also helpful for people with a low libido or anorgasmia (people who find it difficult to have an orgasm), and conditions that prevent vaginal penetration.

Vibrators make orgasms easier to achieve, Periodt!



Using a vibrator for the first time

Vibrator sex tiy

 

Before getting into it, you have to know a number of things and prep yourself. It may seem like just an activity, but the steps you take before going into it will determine the level of pleasure and satisfaction you’ll get out of it.


Here are some of the prep activities and things you need to figure out..


How do you like to be touched?

Do you gain more pleasure from being penetrated, or from being touched externally? Big question. There are two major types of sexual stimulation; the internal stimulation and the clitoral stimulation.


Some of us can only have an orgasm when our clitoris is touched and fondled, while others reach their climax through penetration. What’s good for one may not be good for all, which is why it’s very important you know yourself before diving into the world of vibrators.


Shopping for Vibrators

If you are more of a penetration person, you would want to go for penetration vibrators such as the Rabbit Vibrators, but if you prefer clitoral stimulation, you should get one specifically designed for that. The suction vibrator does the job well, giving sensations similar to that of oral sex. 


Familiarizing yourself with your new toy

 

Like I said earlier, sex toys come in various shapes and sizes, and not just that, but also various settings. The vibration intensity levels can be adjusted based on your needs. My advice for you is to always start gentle, especially when you haven’t tried it before. 

Once you’ve gotten a hang of the settings, the real prepping begins.

 

Get in the mood.

With the vibrators, you want to really get in that mood. You may do any or all of the following;

  • Put your phone on ‘Do not disturb’, you don’t want any calls interrupting that beauty that is about to become
  • Get your space looking and smelling right, create the right vibe
  • Have a nice bath and apply some lotion or body oils all over
  • Turn off the lights and light a scented candle
  • Play some slow erotic playlist and just allow yourself get lost in the moment
  • Caress yourself in ways you would enjoy while flowing to the rhythm

If you do either or all of these, you’ll get so turned on that you’ll be moist before you get the vibrator working. You may choose to put on a sexy silk or satin lingerie, or nothing at all.


Vibing

Okay now we’re set to get vibing. 

If you have a clitoral vibrator, this is for you. 

 

Clit suction toys use a combination of air and suction to give the feeling of being licked down there. 


Lie on the bed or couch in any position that makes you feel the sexiest, but keep in mind that you’ll need the right angles to get the satisfaction you desire. Next, switch on the vibrator, starting with the lowest speed and intensity. Caress your vibrator in the process like it’s a living thing, feel the texture and mentally picture yourself already feeling the electricity travelling through your body. 

Anticipating the pleasure is a great way to add some excitement to this moment.  

If you have panties or lingerie on, try sliding and gliding the vibrator over it targeting your external vagina. Satin underwear makes the rhythm smoother and reduces chances of friction against your vagina. Try using the vibrator on other erogenous parts of your body such as your nipples, earlobes, feet and inner thighs, and don’t be shy


You may use the clit sucker directly on your nipples for more pleasure if it fits. It gives similar sensations as when your nipples are being sucked on. Next, you take off your panties or lingerie, and place the suction hole over your clitoris, holding the body while you enjoy the goodness that it brings.. Gradually increase the speed or intensity of the vibrator based on your desire and allow yourself to get lost in the flaming satisfaction. Be sure not to overdo it tho’. 


If you have a penetration vibrator, it’s pretty much similar; the major difference is that it goes into your vagina. For this vibrator, a water-based lubricant is highly needed, especially if you don’t get wet easily. It’s very important to ensure you don’t get sore after such an exciting experience. Don’t rain on your own parade.


Apply the lube generously on the body of the vibrator before using it, and some around your vagina too to ease the insertion process.


All you have to do is play around with it and place it on your pleasure points. (Still at a low speed). At any point you choose, gently and slowly insert the vibrator into your vibrator and push in and out gently. You may gradually increase the speed or intensity when you feel the need to, but ensure you are in control. Allow yourself to enjoy the pleasure it brings.

Silicone vibrators are the best for first time vibers.


The Best Part!

We have vibrators for both penetration and clitoral stimulation. The right fit for any beginner. Be sure to check out our collection of sex toys and vibrators.